Science, spirituality and other dots in the Universe

Well, I’ve spent the last hour searching the web for a topic that would fuel me to write something interesting.

I’ve found absolutely nothing of interest..I cannot remember the last time I watched the news or kept up with anything politically oriented.  This is due to the fact that I find all of that mostly negative and choose not to include it in my daily life.

What I can say I’ve done recently, which does get me up on my soapbox, is watch a wonderful movie called The Shift, with Dr. Wayne Dyer, a film about finding the meaning in our own lives.

In the last few years, I’ve begun a shift of my own. The book, The Power of Intention, was a catalyst for me. My first experience in the thought that science and spirituality might actually be speaking the same language. Not to mention the idea that I might actually be in charge of my own thoughts that determine my life and that the weird feeling I had in my hands when I do bodywork could actually be defined as energy.

Its been a few years since I read that book. I’ve spent that time learning, reviewing and and becoming a new person. I like to think a better person. Not for the sake of others, but for my own.

Our brains are amazing pieces of equipment, our bodies, a mirror to what’s going on in our thoughts. We think thousands of thoughts each day…have you ever stopped to pay attention to what your’s are?

I’ve been listening to three very interesting programs: Speaking the Lost Language of God by Gregg Braden, The Biology of Belief by Bruce Lipton, PhD and The Virus of Mind by Richard Brodie.  As is my usual nature, I google these authors and go directly to the ‘quack’ websites to see what has been said.  I have to say that I have been somewhat ammused by the most common responses to quantum physics and the cutting edge of science.

To digress for a moment, I’ve been a bodyworker for several years now, and in the beginning, I wondered about the similiar pains in people.  How they didn’t understand why or how it got there and why they always seem to show up in the same places.  Then my aunt, who had colon cancer, made a curious statement.  One I had thought to myself, but never heard out loud, much less researched.

“I can tell  you this, Heather, I will NEVER hold things in again.  I fully believe that I had colon cancer because I’ve been afraid my whole life to tell people what I really think.”

Hmmm.  Well, welcome to the word of Caroline Myss and Louise Hay.  Our emotions are reflected in our bodies.  Further validation came for me when a client came back for a session from about a year break.  I had been seeing her about 3 years, she was quiet, polite, classy and just plain nice.  I never heard a negative word out of her mouth about her family.  In fact, she was complimentary of her husband, son, daughter-in-law and of course, grandson.  She suddenly stopped coming in, but having lived about 35 miles away, I attributed it to the distance and change in job. I have to mention at this point, that from my bodyworker’s viewpoint, it seemed odd to me that for someone who seemed to have it all, her body showed a different story.  The underlying tissue in her back was rigid and the shoulders seemed ‘heavy’.  Again, I placed this directly on the blame of a stressful job.  She never talked much, so I didn’t have a complete story….her story.

About a year later, she called for an appointment. During her session, suddenly talkative, she shared that she and her husband had been going to counseling and that she had learned to use a catch-phrase, “ouch”.  Her counselor had recommended it so that her husband would know when he said hurtful things to her and this allowed her to express it without anger.

I was amazed.  I felt like I had just known that something else was going on with her, but didn’t know what!  Here it was, validation that the emotional body shows up in the physical body.

Let me say, that I have spent the last few years learning to redirect my own thoughts.  Some areas work, others don’t. My perspective though, is that if it doesn’t work, I must not know the totallity of what I am trying to do.

I say this in response to so many things I have read regarding the mumbo-jumbo of new science and or spirituality.  So many people who believe that if they simply wish for things, they will show up.  Or friends and family who are angry because their friend, parent, aunt died of cancer because they believed that holistic medicine would save them.

We used to believe the the world was flat and that the sun revolved around the earth too.

No, changing our beliefs is not a simple process.  Discovering why we are here is not always an easy path.  Healing ourselves is not just like peeling away the layers of an onion…peel a layer, cry a little and chunk the parts you don’t want.

Reinventing yourself is a time-consuming, life altering path. One that does not stop.  We aren’t here on a wing and a prayer, however, I do love the thought that instead of being a physical being who has the occasional spiritual experience, is it possible that we are spiritual beings having a human experience?

Before you argue, pause and ask yourself, Is it possible?

We don’t have all the answers.  Christianity is about 2000 years old and science is about 400 years old.  Prior to science, we had philosophers.  Ideas that had no proof.  Often we look to the medical world to tell us exactly what is, because it is based on scientific fact.  Interestingly enough, however, science turns itself over again and again.  So our factual authorities, ie. doctors, are amazed when a patient miraculously heals faster or even cures themselves, on the power of prayer.

Where will this lead us?  What if we open and allow ourselves to look at new ways of thinking?  What if we accept the idea that we may have been wrong before, or that we knew a little bit about something but we didn’t know all of it?

The journey continues….

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What on Earth?!

So here we are at the beginning of a new year and new presidential era.  My madre asked me today if I was taking off next Tuesday to watch the inauguration…Seriously?!  I think not.  I’m sure they’ll replay the darn thing a million times over, pick apart his speech, CNN will praise and Fox News will disintegrate….but either way, he’s our new President.

So what now?  Race, color or creed, he’s taking on the worst place in history according to quite a bit of hype out there.  Will his ‘Change’ affect where I sit in life?  I’ve never been much of a political minded individual and am not likely to start now.  Where I stand on who he is and what he does is merely an opinion.  He’ll screw up, he’ll make great decisions.  And some of those people that I love will stand on either side of the line and argue a moot point to its death.

Ultimately, yes, we are at a historic place in history as the first black man takes the Presidency.  Do we call him ‘black’ as he is half white and half black?  Holy crow….and then when you google ‘mulatto’ as a term that the press seems to love lately, how many people consider it offensive?  Amazingly, one of my dearest friends daughter is mulatto and that’s where I learned the term.  That’s what she calls her.  My take on that is simply this:  my heritage combination doesn’t define me and whether there’s a name for it or not, I’m the one that chooses to take offense at any name I may be called whether it is in regard to my nationality or my personality.

So all of that meandering to say….  welcome to new beginnings in the world.  What on earth can you do to make it a wonderful place?  No matter the politics or the slander, take care of your own Bangladesh (in the words of the honorable Mother Teresa) and take care of it well.

Peace and joy to all.

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WWW.SIMPLYSUGARSYSTEMS.BIZ

Yeah! Its up! Its a miracle!

Just kidding. I created the site in the iWeb app and am just so darned impressed with the GoDaddy support team and how patient my customer service rep was in helping me transfer the site over. Check out my site and let me know what you think!

www.simplysugarsystems.biz

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Website Aggravation

SO, creating a website always seems to leave you at the mercy of the web guru. I got a little frustrated with that scenario and decided to do it myself…said the little red hen. (Anyone remember that story from our youth??) I created a website in my iWeb app on my mac. Holy cow, who doesn’t LOVE a Mac? Anyway, created it in about two days and now am in the process of setting up hosting on the new domain site so I can transfer it over! YIPPEE!

Now, I realize that the site I’m creating is no where NEAR what the guru is doing for us, but anybody out there think like I do??? Your site that says, ‘Down for Maintenance’ is a noose around the neck of your company???? So, there you have it. I’ll be announcing the site as soon as I get the hosting approved (takes 24 hours on godaddy.com) and WOOHOO! I’ll be LIVE!

So, kudos to the gurus out there, but I want my site visible to the ENTIRE world NOW! And really, he’s been at it a couple of months in his spare time, of which he doesn’t have any! :-)

Final thought: well, really a question…how hard is it to build a back office on a site with online purchase ability from both US and Canada, and how hard is it to link sales directly to salespeople??

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Holidays Shmolidays

I don’t know why I can’t seem to get in the Christmas spirit this year…and I don’t seem to be the only one. Everyone I’ve talked to says they just don’t want to spend any money this year. Well, good luck with that! I’ve got two teenage girls and I am caught between wanting that jaw drop wow great Christmas present look and not wanting to disappoint them but also not wanting to spoil the hell out of them! And just where the heck is that middle ground anyway???

They’ve made their lists and I’m picking and choosing. Our budget is tight this year with the launch of the new company and trying to get it up off the ground. We’d hoped to launch about 3 months earlier and would have been in a better position, but ah well, things are as they should be, right? Anyway…what I’m really after is this:

How do you create new holiday traditions? We have family, but none we really want to spend Christmas with, save one and its difficult for them to come to us and we’ve just been there and aren’t sure its in the budget to go back… So here we are and what to do?

Any suggestions on Christmas traditions? Thought about opening presents early and then doing a movie and coming home and eating Christmas dinner. Is that boring? Its 4 family members and my parents….what’s fun out there?

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Yelp!

Ok, so just got turned onto this site called www.yelp.com. Seems like a facebook meets linkedin for referrals and so forth. I’ve been playing with it for a couple of days and its pretty user friendly. There seems to be quite a few yelpers out there although its just taking off in Dallas…

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Me? Blog? I don’t know…..

I’m so new to all this blogging stuff! What the heck am I doing? I see other people’s blogs, but not sure exactly what I’m supposed to do or say. Funny, I usually never shut up! :)

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